Tuesday, April 11, 2006
"it is a loveless relationship, but I have to find the right time to break up with her"
What? What is the right time? There is only the moment where you make up your mind, put your foot down, take a deep breath and take the plunge. The mythical "right time" is just that. A dream, where you don't have to make difficult choices, where life is a box of Godiva chocolates, where I am 170cm and have C cup boobs.
It will hurt the same whether you procrastinate or not. In fact, it will hurt even more when you lure her into a false sense of security and then drop the bombshell.
It is the prime of your life! Every second you waste is every second you regret when you are 80, toothless and peeing out of a tube. Come on, be a man! Do the right thing (hur hur).
The boy understands (I hope) my rationale. If the relationship has hit a dead end, and there is no foreseeable way of getting out of the rut, then it is better to part amicably. I don't want to waste time tangled up in that same web of insecurity, deception, manipulation and ultimately, depression that stems from "wanting to prove that I can make a relationship work". My youth (the Singapore Youth Council classifies youths as below 30!!) is too precious, and so is yours.
Please.
insatiable at 10:00 AM
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